What to say, what to trust? When trust shattered into pieces, bias comes into play, skepticism steps in, no one except yourself knows what the truth is. Perhaps you are confused too. The only thing I ask for after all these dramas is respect to yourself and the family. At the very least, respect the bond we have/had, stand in our shoes and graciously bid goodbye.
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Everyone wants the best for you but I can completely understand the fact that you want to handle this on your own. I would demand the right to make the decision if I were you. Follow your rationale, listen to your heart. Ultimately, it is your life. I mean it when I say I support all your decisions, I am still and will always do.