Showing posts with label neutral. Show all posts
Showing posts with label neutral. Show all posts

Sunday, May 20, 2012

矛。盾

一段不被祝福的感情,真的能够突破层层关卡,开花结果吗?这两天和朋友们聊到了身边的三对情侣,其中两对是不受家人或朋友祝福的。种种的原因包括天壤之别的家庭背景,家长不满意于男或女方待人处事的表现,或觉得其中一方不好;不论是出于偏见、误会,或者是出于“旁观者清”的现实,这多多少少都为那两对情侣带来了些许困扰。轻则朋友好言相劝或选择视而不见,重则和家人、朋友陷入僵局。到底最后谁会取胜呢?在我看来,这已成了一场看谁比较倔强,愿意硬着头皮坚持不放弃直到另外一方先放下成见甚至是自尊和颜面投降的拉锯战。 

若是亲友的想法错了,那是最好的。 至少在经过许多困难后,有情人能在证明家事实不是众人所想象后,开花结果,终成眷属。倘若很不幸的那对男女真的不适合对方却依然盲目的被爱冲昏了头,就算最后身边的人放下了成见勉强的接受了那在他们看来充满瑕疵的爱情,试问那对情侣能牵手走下去多久?幸福会永恒吗?

我想无可否认的是爱情已不再单纯的是两个人之间的事情。它牵涉了恋爱中两个人的家庭,甚至是身边的朋友。继续为爱坚实,努力不懈,不放弃的精神和勇气,不是每个人都有的。无论如何,祝福你们。

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Merdeka

31st August-Malaysia Independence Day. Just in case you are not aware of how Malaysians in Melbourne celebrate Merdeka, we party in a club! Yes, that's how we show our patriotism, by counting down in a club at 2am Aussie time(i.e. 12am Malaysian time),dancing and drinking. I suppose it's just another excuse for them to party for the whole night haha! So this year,I joined the fun and attended the Merdeka clubbing at Fusion nightclub at Crown! Decided to go this year because I was really curious how people celebrate Merdeka in a club. Would everyone stand still and sing "Negaraku" after counting down at 2am? (The answer is NO,everyone continued dancing after "5,4,3,2,1"). Also,some of my clubbing friends are graduating end of this year hence I won't have the companion to attend this kind of event next year. So when would I have the chance to go other than this year?! Here are a few photos taken last night:

Pre-drink at Ze Ying's place

Before entering the club
Clubbing with Shyue Shyan for the very first time!
How surprised our secondary school friends will be after they know about this.

It was a pretty enjoyable night! No one tried to take advantage of girls in our group and no big drama happened. *Thank God!* I am not a girl who could go wild and party to the max so clubbing is still not my cup of tea. It is killing to dance and stand in high heels for the whole night! Okay to do it once a while (like once a half year) but definitely a big no no if I were asked to go clubbing every week/month.

Other than going to a club voluntarily and clubbing with Shyue Shyan for the first time,I experienced the "almost fainted" feeling for the very first time in my entire life. I was perfectly fine when I came out from the club but I started feeling unwell while waiting for friends. First symptom-blocked ears, second symptom-saw spots before my eyes. Started to feel sick and everything around me was swaying. My friends thought my drink was spiked when they saw my pale face and sweaty palms. A few friends quickly helped me to sit on the floor and asked everyone not to surround me. Took off my jackets,took a few deep breaths,my visions slowly went back to normal. Luckily Shyue Shyan was alert and realised that I was unwell. It would be really bad if I fainted and became unconscious. I am not sure what triggered that but I guess the change of place and position after staying in the club for 5 hours might be the cause. It was quite frightening and I will never forget the feeling of going to faint. Have to be more careful in the future and warn the people around me if it happens again! (Of course,I hope it will never ever happen again!)

Have you heard about the Malaysia local production "Nasi Lemak 2.0",the movie produced by Namewee? I went for the only premium show of that movie in Melbourne on Wednesday. A few actors,including Namewee, came and watched the movie with us! A pretty good comedy,which shows the true Malaysia and promote harmony among races. The movie made me miss Malaysia even more and I can't wait for 31st December to come! Just to share something said by Namewee after the movie with you-"There is nothing I want to say other than this. Even if I could get a very good job offer overseas,I will still return to Malaysia".

Saturday, September 18, 2010

A night

If you could walk away like this,it is crystal clear what kind of friends you are.

Sunday, September 12, 2010

4 words

This is gonna be a very short update about my recent life,and as indicated by the title,I will summarize everything using 4 words.

The best word to describe my current life - HECTIC

BUSY comes second.

STRESSFUL follows,

and what I need the most now is TIME.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

人生

I received a forward email from a friend.It talks about life which in my opinion,quite true in reflecting how we go through different stages of life.

人生
當你二十歲的時候,你醒來希望是愛情。
當你三十歲的時候,你醒來希望是結婚。
當你四十歲的時候,你醒來希望是成功。
當你五十歲的時候,你醒來希望是富有。
當你六十歲的時候,你醒來希望是知足。
當你七十歲的時候,你醒來希望是健康。
當你八十歲的時候,你只希望能醒過來。

The last sentence is a bit funny but it is true,isn't it?Life is short so cherish what we have and make good use of our life!

Friday, June 18, 2010

exam

Done with 3 papers!The last paper is Probability on the next Thursday.One week before the paper,I must make good use of it!Study hard!I should go to bed now.Slept at 4am is not fun,especially if you have been staying up until 3am recently.I am damn tired now.Good night!

Monday, May 3, 2010

calm

1 2 3 4 5..

at least there is voice..

there is no tears and we smile!


oh well..i know that everyone will find this post doesn't make sense at all.i do not know why i want to write it in this way but i guess this is my special way of expressing it.you guys can just take this as a random post and ignore it.haha..good night!

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

news of the day

good news:I got into SALP!

bad news:I have a take home exam,2 assignments.
I didn't do well in the mid semester test today.

Conclusion:I can't wait for April to end.